問(wen) 我是一(yi)名應(ying)屆畢(bi)業生(sheng)，剛剛找到一(yi)份工作，工作中和新(xin)同事握手需要注(zhu)意(yi)什么？

答 握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)首(shou)先(xian)應(ying)注意伸手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)次序。在(zai)和女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)等女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)先(xian)伸手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之后再(zai)握(wo)，如女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)伸手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，或無握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之意，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)則點頭鞠躬致意即可(ke)，而(er)不(bu)可(ke)主動(dong)去(qu)握(wo)住女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)；在(zai)和長(chang)輩握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，年(nian)(nian)輕(qing)者一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般要(yao)等年(nian)(nian)長(chang)者先(xian)伸出(chu)(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)握(wo); 在(zai)和上(shang)(shang)級(ji)(ji)握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)，下(xia)級(ji)(ji)要(yao)等上(shang)(shang)級(ji)(ji)先(xian)伸出(chu)(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)趨前握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)。另外，接待來訪客人(ren)時(shi)，主人(ren)有向客人(ren)先(xian)伸手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)義(yi)務，以示(shi)(shi)歡迎；送別客人(ren)時(shi)，主人(ren)不(bu)能主動(dong)握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，否則有逐客之嫌，這(zhe)時(shi)客人(ren)要(yao)先(xian)伸手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，表示(shi)(shi)對主人(ren)的(de)感謝，并(bing)讓主人(ren)留步。 在(zai)握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)同時(shi)要(yao)注視對方，態度真摯親切，切不(bu)可(ke)東張西望，漫(man)不(bu)經心。如果是一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般關系(xi)、一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般場合(he)，雙(shuang)方握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)稍(shao)用力握(wo)一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)下(xia)即可(ke)放(fang)開(kai)，時(shi)間一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般為2至(zhi)5秒(miao)。如果關系(xi)親密、場合(he)隆重，雙(shuang)方的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)住后應(ying)上(shang)(shang)下(xia)微搖幾下(xia)，以體現出(chu)(chu)熱情。如果男士(shi)(shi)(shi)同女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，一(yi)(yi)(yi)(yi)般只輕(qing)握(wo)女(nv)方的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指(zhi)部分，不(bu)宜握(wo)得太(tai)緊太(tai)久。