問(wen) 我(wo)是一(yi)名應(ying)屆畢業生，剛剛找到一(yi)份工作，工作中(zhong)和新同(tong)事握手需要注意什么？

答 握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)首(shou)先應(ying)(ying)注(zhu)意(yi)伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)次序(xu)。在和女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)等女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)先伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)后再握(wo)(wo)(wo)，如女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)不伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，或(huo)無握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)意(yi)，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)則點頭鞠躬致(zhi)意(yi)即(ji)可，而(er)不可主(zhu)動去握(wo)(wo)(wo)住(zhu)女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)；在和長(chang)輩握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，年輕者一(yi)(yi)般(ban)要(yao)等年長(chang)者先伸(shen)出手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再握(wo)(wo)(wo); 在和上(shang)級(ji)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，下級(ji)要(yao)等上(shang)級(ji)先伸(shen)出手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再趨前握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)。另外，接(jie)待來訪客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)時(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)有(you)向客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)先伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)義務，以示(shi)歡迎；送別客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)時(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)不能(neng)主(zhu)動握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，否則有(you)逐客(ke)(ke)之(zhi)(zhi)(zhi)嫌，這時(shi)(shi)客(ke)(ke)人(ren)(ren)(ren)要(yao)先伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，表示(shi)對主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)感謝，并讓主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)(ren)留步(bu)。 在握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)同時(shi)(shi)要(yao)注(zhu)視對方(fang)(fang)，態度(du)真摯親切，切不可東張西(xi)望，漫不經心。如果(guo)是一(yi)(yi)般(ban)關系、一(yi)(yi)般(ban)場合，雙方(fang)(fang)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)稍用力(li)握(wo)(wo)(wo)一(yi)(yi)下即(ji)可放開，時(shi)(shi)間一(yi)(yi)般(ban)為2至(zhi)5秒(miao)。如果(guo)關系親密、場合隆(long)重，雙方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)(wo)(wo)住(zhu)后應(ying)(ying)上(shang)下微搖幾下，以體現出熱情。如果(guo)男士(shi)(shi)(shi)同女(nv)士(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，一(yi)(yi)般(ban)只輕握(wo)(wo)(wo)女(nv)方(fang)(fang)的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指部分，不宜握(wo)(wo)(wo)得太緊太久。