問 我(wo)是一名應屆畢業生(sheng)，剛剛找到(dao)一份工(gong)作，工(gong)作中(zhong)和新同事握手需要注意什么？

答 握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)首先(xian)應注意(yi)伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)次(ci)序。在和女(nv)士握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，男(nan)士要(yao)等(deng)女(nv)士先(xian)伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)后再(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)，如女(nv)士不(bu)伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，或無握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)意(yi)，男(nan)士則(ze)點頭鞠躬致(zhi)意(yi)即(ji)可(ke)，而不(bu)可(ke)主動(dong)去握(wo)(wo)(wo)住(zhu)女(nv)士的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)；在和長輩握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，年(nian)(nian)輕者(zhe)一(yi)般(ban)(ban)要(yao)等(deng)年(nian)(nian)長者(zhe)先(xian)伸(shen)出(chu)(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo); 在和上級握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，下(xia)級要(yao)等(deng)上級先(xian)伸(shen)出(chu)(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)趨(qu)前握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)。另外，接待來訪客人時(shi)(shi)，主人有(you)向客人先(xian)伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)義務，以示歡迎；送別客人時(shi)(shi)，主人不(bu)能主動(dong)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，否(fou)則(ze)有(you)逐(zhu)客之(zhi)嫌，這時(shi)(shi)客人要(yao)先(xian)伸(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，表示對主人的(de)感謝，并讓主人留步。 在握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)同(tong)時(shi)(shi)要(yao)注視對方(fang)，態度真摯親切，切不(bu)可(ke)東張西望，漫不(bu)經心。如果(guo)是一(yi)般(ban)(ban)關系(xi)、一(yi)般(ban)(ban)場合，雙方(fang)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)稍(shao)用力握(wo)(wo)(wo)一(yi)下(xia)即(ji)可(ke)放開(kai)，時(shi)(shi)間(jian)一(yi)般(ban)(ban)為2至5秒。如果(guo)關系(xi)親密、場合隆重，雙方(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)(wo)(wo)住(zhu)后應上下(xia)微搖(yao)幾下(xia)，以體現出(chu)(chu)熱情。如果(guo)男(nan)士同(tong)女(nv)士握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，一(yi)般(ban)(ban)只輕握(wo)(wo)(wo)女(nv)方(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)指部分，不(bu)宜握(wo)(wo)(wo)得太緊太久。