問 我是一名應屆畢業生，剛剛找到一份(fen)工(gong)作，工(gong)作中(zhong)和新(xin)同事握手(shou)需(xu)要(yao)注意什(shen)么？

答 握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)(shi)首先(xian)應(ying)注意(yi)伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)次序。在和(he)女士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)要等女士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)先(xian)伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)后再(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)，如女士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)(bu)伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，或無握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之(zhi)意(yi)，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)則(ze)點(dian)頭鞠(ju)躬(gong)致意(yi)即(ji)(ji)可，而不(bu)(bu)可主(zhu)動(dong)去握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)住女士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)；在和(he)長(chang)輩握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，年輕者一般(ban)(ban)要等年長(chang)者先(xian)伸(shen)(shen)出(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo); 在和(he)上級(ji)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，下(xia)級(ji)要等上級(ji)先(xian)伸(shen)(shen)出(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)趨(qu)前(qian)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)。另(ling)外，接(jie)待(dai)來訪客人(ren)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)人(ren)有(you)向客人(ren)先(xian)伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)義(yi)務，以示歡迎；送(song)別客人(ren)時(shi)(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)人(ren)不(bu)(bu)能主(zhu)動(dong)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，否則(ze)有(you)逐客之(zhi)嫌，這時(shi)(shi)(shi)客人(ren)要先(xian)伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，表示對主(zhu)人(ren)的(de)(de)感謝，并讓主(zhu)人(ren)留步。 在握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)同時(shi)(shi)(shi)要注視對方，態度真摯(zhi)親切，切不(bu)(bu)可東張西望(wang)，漫不(bu)(bu)經心。如果是(shi)一般(ban)(ban)關(guan)系(xi)、一般(ban)(ban)場(chang)合，雙方握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)(shi)稍用力握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)一下(xia)即(ji)(ji)可放開，時(shi)(shi)(shi)間一般(ban)(ban)為2至(zhi)5秒。如果關(guan)系(xi)親密(mi)、場(chang)合隆重(zhong)，雙方的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)住后應(ying)上下(xia)微搖幾下(xia)，以體現出(chu)熱情。如果男士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)同女士(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，一般(ban)(ban)只輕握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)女方的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指部(bu)分，不(bu)(bu)宜握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)得(de)太緊(jin)太久。