問(wen) 都說職(zhi)場是(shi)充滿(man)競爭(zheng)的地方，職(zhi)場如(ru)戰場，難(nan)道在(zai)職(zhi)場中(zhong)就不能與(yu)同事做朋友(you)了嗎？

答(da) 提(ti)倡與同(tong)(tong)(tong)事做朋(peng)友，并不是要求跟全(quan)單(dan)位(wei)所有(you)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事都做知心朋(peng)友，那(nei)既不可(ke)能也沒必要。我們完(wan)全(quan)可(ke)以在單(dan)位(wei)這個(ge)小圈子里有(you)選擇地結交知心朋(peng)友。初到(dao)某個(ge)單(dan)位(wei)，先用(yong)心觀(guan)察周圍(wei)的每(mei)個(ge)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事，發現共同(tong)(tong)(tong)點較多的同(tong)(tong)(tong)事后可(ke)主動接近，與之向知心朋(peng)友發展。其他(ta)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事也不應劃為(wei)異(yi)己(ji)，應該努力保持良好的同(tong)(tong)(tong)事關系。