問 辦(ban)公(gong)室的同事的關系(xi)都(dou)不是很好，我想與(yu)他們搞好關系(xi)也無從(cong)下手，我該如何跟他們搞好關系(xi)，從(cong)而促進工(gong)作的發展呢(ni)？

答 搞不好同(tong)(tong)(tong)事關(guan)系，同(tong)(tong)(tong)事變(bian)成“敵人”的(de)可能性大過做朋友的(de)可能性。同(tong)(tong)(tong)事之(zhi)間，最(zui)怕糾纏。無休止的(de)糾纏，損人不利己。這就要求職場(chang)人把握這種關(guan)系的(de)，要多贊美(mei)你(ni)(ni)的(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事，讓你(ni)(ni)的(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事感覺你(ni)(ni)認(ren)同(tong)(tong)(tong)他，欣賞他，久(jiu)而久(jiu)之(zhi)，良好的(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)事關(guan)系就會讓你(ni)(ni)的(de)工(gong)作沒有阻滯、牽絆，會讓你(ni)(ni)的(de)辦公室關(guan)系像(xiang)(xiang)潤滑油(you)一樣滑潤，像(xiang)(xiang)奶酪(lao)一樣香甜！